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James Hart's avatar

Love this, Brit, both the rhythm and the message.

I think we've been operating under the assumption that modern choice and convenience comes at no cost to us; in fact I think it comes at the expense of chance and adventure.

Love this part:

"Give us back those men

who speak of things

too wonderful to know."

Hard to speak of wonders met while on the commute from our apartments to our offices, as more and more of us do now. As Nick said, it's a wonderful call to action.

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Brit McReynolds's avatar

Ha too true. There’s not much wonder and adventure to be found in the convenience of a modern age. But, I think it can be found when we go looking for it, even if it means we have to cultivate it ourselves.

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Olivia Marstall's avatar

I love this. Almost sounds a bit like a rowing shanty—or some kind of song, at least! And the “name above names all” in the last line is beautiful.

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Brit McReynolds's avatar

It must have been a subconscious thought while writing. I think it falls just shy of the more regular, bouncing meter of a good shanty, but I’m glad it reads with musicality!

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Olivia Marstall's avatar

Something like Chesterton’s Lepanto is the other thing it reminded me of… I just really like the rhythm in this one!

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Nick Chapman-Jones's avatar

A wonderful call to action.

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Sam Alaimo's avatar

This is a beautiful ode, Brit.

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Brit McReynolds's avatar

Thank you, Sam.

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maryh10000's avatar

I love the combo of ruddy men and the stanza about gentleness too. Somehow, you manage to recover the original meaning of meekness in the poem as a whole.

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Brit McReynolds's avatar

Thank you! I’m glad that came across.

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PhysicsPhantasm's Carey-all's avatar

this poem is anthem for men. I loved it. I wish i could write like this.

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Eric Roseberry's avatar

One of my favorite things I’ve read recently. Well done!

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Brit McReynolds's avatar

Thank you, Eric! That means a lot.

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Peter Whisenant's avatar

This reads like a plea, but I'm not sure who the plea is directed toward. How could these "ruddy men" be brought back?

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Brit McReynolds's avatar

I suppose it is a plea, or a lament, or as Nick put it “a call to action.” Perhaps the point of the poem is that it begs those very questions of the reader that you’re asking now.

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Daniel Bishop's avatar

The rhythm in this poem is quite good. Excellently done, Brit!

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Brit McReynolds's avatar

Thank you Daniel. This was a fun one to write.

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Brit McReynolds's avatar

Respectfully, I think that’s a very low view of men. And to say there never were any would be inaccurate. There have been plenty throughout history, and numerous examples in the Bible alone. Perfect? No, but that’s not what the poem calls for. If we want to dive into the meaning of ruddy (which essentially means red at its root) then let’s remember this is poetic language. Merriam-Webster defines it as having a healthy reddish color (specifically in the face). This can imply life, strength, health. The end of the poem ties it all together in saying that these men are known for having the “name above names all” on their lips. It even quotes Job 42 where Job confesses he had spoken of “things too wonderful to know.” The poem is calling for men of God, who are bold and adventurous, who fight when there’s a need and show restraint, with meekness and a gentle hand. I have known those men in my lifetime. I’m married to such a man. But to use such words as scruffy, callous, uneducated? Those are simply demeaning.

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Lori T's avatar

Plus, I had just read the amazing Substack account or “The secret lives of men.” 🤯 wow. Recommend!!

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Brit McReynolds's avatar

I might check it out. I can’t help but be slightly offended as someone who puts a lot of work into her craft, to hear that someone could be so quick to respond with a negative comment and not even read what I worked so hard to create. Perhaps we need more ruddy women, too?

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Lori T's avatar

Absolutely. (But hey my face IS indeed red right now. Embarrassed. I need a come-to-Jesus moment right now).

Lesson learned. Please forgive me.

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Brit McReynolds's avatar

Certainly. I appreciate the candor. All is forgiven 😂

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Lori T's avatar

I’m so sorry. I didn’t bother to read it, so didn’t realize it was a poem.

(My maga-triggered—hence “red” alert—brain is way into overdrive. Need to get off social media!)

I really do apologize.

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